Tantric Massage First Time – What to Expect
So, you’ve heard of tantric massage and the numerous benefits it can have regarding your wellbeing and your sex life. Of course, this is something which catches the eye of quite a few prospective clients, but what deters a lot of people is that they don’t quite understand what to expect and what a tantric massage actually entails. With this in mind, we’ve decided to write this article to give you a better idea of exactly what goes on during your tantric massage booking and what you should expect the outcome of the massage to be.
We’ll begin with a few points that should help dispel some thoughts you might have about whether or not you should get a massage and what you should know before considering the idea.
Tantric Massage Doesn’t Work Instantly
Actually, to an extent it does; but you’re not going to get the full extent of the benefits from just one massage. This is similar to just about any other therapy, in order to see the best results you’re going to have to make multiple appointments and you’ll gradually see improvements over time. However, it’s important to keep in mind that you can still have an utterly incredible experience in your very first booking, so there’s no need to be put off by the fact that you might need to come back a few times to get the most of your money.
The Location and Setting is of Vital Importance
If you’re thinking of getting a massage, you need to ensure your accommodation is adequate. Now, don’t get the wrong idea, your hotel room will do just fine. What’s important is that you’re in a place where you’re comfortable, in a positive atmosphere with the right ambience (which your masseuse will help ensure by bringing aromatic candles and oils to give the room a relaxing scent).
If you have any doubts as to whether you’re going to be able to enjoy the massage service at its finest, consider arranging an incall appointment. There are countless agencies out there with ladies offering this service, such as Bliss Tantric for example. The girls who offer this service do so because their apartment or house is the perfect environment for them to work at their best, which means you get an all-around better massage in doing so (plus this usually saves you a bit of money as incall rates tend to be lower than outcall rates).
Now, we’ll get on to what you should actually expect during your booking. We’ll break this down into a few simple steps that will give you a better idea of what a tantric massage is and what happens throughout the time that you’re there. Every practitioner will have their own style, which can make the general gist of the techniques somewhat harder to generalize than it would be for many other types of massage, but the majority of the principles remain the same regardless.
Start by Discussing Your Massage
You and your masseuse will typically begin by talking about your massage to get a better understanding of what is required. This could be as simple as you having a quick talk and saying you’re simply curious, in which case she will just try her best to relax you and allow you to embrace your sensual energy as best she can. It’s also possible, however, that you could talk to her about specific issues from which you suffer, be it erectile dysfunction, high-stress levels, back pains and many other problems that can really get in the way of your life. There is no requirement for a sexually related issue as the tantric arts can help with multiple dilemmas you might find yourself facing in your life, although the massages are intended primarily for sexual enlightenment purposes.
Take a Quick Shower
Most masseuses will have a pretty simple protocol, which will start with a quick shower to ensure you’re clean and tidy. This will never be done due to doubt as to your competence to maintain your own personal hygiene, this simply makes sure you’re ready to begin your massage refreshed and relaxed. Certain massage techniques (such as Aqua massages and Bathing Ritual massages) often begin here and in this cases, your masseuse will join you in the shower.
Once this is over, you will meet your massage in the appropriate area, where you will undress again and your masseuse will begin the preparations for your tantric adventure. This will include her lighting scented candles, burning aromatic incense and ensuring the room is in the best condition possible for your massage.
Then, Practice Your Breathing
Once your talk is over, your masseuse will begin to guide you through some tantric breathing techniques which will help you relax and get you in the mood for your tantric adventure. This brings more energy through your body and as a result, allows you to connect with that energy and gain a more in-depth understanding of your sexuality and as a result, you’ll be ready to start your tantric massage.
The Massage Itself
Now, you can get the actual massage. Your masseuse will lay you down and begin to rub her massage oils into every inch of your body, slowly beginning to tease and tantalise your senses with her sensual touch. She will begin to slide her body over yours, creating immense pleasure and caressing your skin with hers.
This will gradually stimulate all of your erotic zones, gradually leading more and more into the massage of the lingam. This will often reach its climax in what’s known as a “happy ending”, allowing you to finally release your sexual energy in the form of toe-curling orgasm.
To Conclude
So there we have it, an idea of what you should expect when booking your tantric massage. Of course, every massage is different, which means you may have a slight experience than what’s highlighted above. For the most part, however, this is generally how your massage will go down.
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